The thrill of a new relationship is always intriguing and exciting. You’re entering a new level, meeting someone new and all those things who already past and were long forgotten with your ex, are now “firsts”. First things, first kisses, first fight, first weekend together etc.
Do you think this is the real deal for sure? Don’t you want to know if this relationship is going to last? Here are some of the early signs that your partner is not the right person and he/she’s going to left you heartbroken again.
YOU’RE TOLERATING BAD BEHAVIOR FROM THE START
It’s easy to put aside many things your partner is doing very wrong, just because at the beginning you’re still blinded by the passion of the new relationship.
Your partner’s always late, your partner cancels your plans in the last and worse moment, your partner’s not dedicated to you when you’re out… you can politely say what’s bothering you at the very start, just to let your partner know you are not going to tolerate this in the future. Remember that a relationship needs the efforts of both sides.
YOUR PERSONAL LIFE IS “ON HOLD”
Entered a new relationship, and your friends are already complaining they are missing spending time with you, you’re not socializing with family so often etc. This is one of the worse things that could happen, because when you’re let down, that same circle of family and friends will be the ones who will be putting your life back on track.
Never miss on doing stuff you were doing before you entered the relationship and be yourself! Otherwise, it is you who is contributing for your partner to lose interest of yourself, because you’re losing all the values of your true self.
NOT TALKING TO EACH OTHER
If this is happening at the very start of a new relationship, trust me, it’s not a relationship that will last. You’re both not sharing what’s most important to you and instead, you’re just pretending to care for each other.
Even if you think mentioning something would start a fight – go ahead and start a fight. It’s better to discuss misunderstandings than to pretend everything is fine and avoid something that is going to happen sooner or later.